San Diego Comic Con 2012 Review – Part 1
While a little late to count for news of any sort, I still wanted to spend a little time talking about my experience at Comic Con this year (let me clarify, my first San Diego Comic Con experience) over a post or two.
A few years back I started making a habit of going on vacations for my birthday. It just seemed like the thing to do; rather than spend money on a gift why not spend it on an experience instead? So after last year’s ridiculous birthday extravaganza I started thinking about what I wanted to do for the big 4-0. I noticed that the 2012 Comic Con fell on the week of my birthday and I thought “What better way is there to shake my fist at Father Time and proclaim that I will never truly grow old?” I couldn’t think of one, so I got to planning.
And let me tell you if you haven’t been, plan you must. Regular attendees are probably reading this, nodding their heads knowingly, feeling a twinge of pain as they think back on the ever-changing process they have been enduring for years; but for me it was a whole new world filled with uncertainty and nerd-rage. The process to obtain tickets sucked donkey anus to be frank. I won’t get into the whole fiasco, mostly because revisiting it would probably result in an aneurysm, but at the end of the day I had two-day passes (Thurs & Fri) for me and my wife.
Fast forward five months, a scramble for finding a hotel and trying to not get airfare raped and we were ready to fly out to San Diego! Not only were we looking forward to the convention, but getting away from the unusually horrendous east coast weather was going to be a treat. We arrived on Wednesday, played a quick game of “spot the geek” as we waited for our luggage, and checked into our hotel with no issues. Since not only had neither of us been to the convention before, we had also never visited San Diego (German translation = Whale’s Vagina #ronburgundyprotip) so we were excited to get out and explore a little before heading over to the off-site registration location and picking up our passes.
The first thing that struck us was how the city embraces the massive influx of geek. They really get into it, not that they have a choice I guess, but it was nice to see restaurants flaunting comic and movie themes and art galleries putting on comic inspired shows. We wandered through a few galleries and whatnot before getting to registration and picking up our badges and schedules, luckily it was still early enough that the lines were short and we cruised through quickly. (due to a lost credit card and driver’s license we backtracked to registration a few hours later and were greeted by a veritable sea of people waiting. It was ugly.)
After a stuffing our faces at one of the Gaslamp district restaurants we wandered down to ground zero to see get a glimpse of what Comic Con held in store for us.
The crowds were light still, as only people who bought the primo four-day pass with preview night, were allowed in. One or two people with costumes, but mostly gawkers much like us. We wandered around to the bay side and I got my first glimpse of what I have been referring to as “Nerdvana”. There, lined up on the grass, was every Batmobile from every one of the movies. I really think this is where my wife started to question her mating choice as I took out my ginormous, mental, fan-boy button and pinned it right on my proverbial sleeve for the world to see! I was at the world-famous Comic Con, and the Batmobiles were here?!?!?
Needless to say out came the camera and I spent some time looking at each one, even the dreaded Schumacher-mobile *shudder*, paying special attention to the original 1966 version. Not 3 feet from me was a huge part of my childhood and my first experience with the world of super-heroes and comics! I was in nerd heaven, and that was to be just the beginning! Check back in tomorrow loyal readers to hear about what it was like actually inside the Convention Center at Comic Con… same Bat-time, same Bat-channel!
P.S. – Here is a hint. It was shiny!
Balancing Gaming and Healthy Living – You Can Do It!
Gamer nerds, in general, are considered to be generally non-athletic and un-healthy.
What if I were to tell you that doesn’t have to be the case and give you the tools to find a manageable balance between your geek lifestyle and healthy living / being active?
Well that is exactly what I am going to do, because I am living proof that you can be a giant nerd of Potsie-like proportions and still be in shape and lead a healthy life!
Throw away your pre-conceived notions!
If you get those out of your head, and set the excuses aside, I promise I can help you!
All through High School I gamed and read comic books.
I was an art nerd, and pretty damned skinny. Don’t get me wrong, I was active back then – I ran cross-country (slowly) because a few friends did, I wrestled (very poorly) and I skateboarded (also pretty poorly) every spring and summer.
What I didn’t understand back then though was that being healthy and in-shape did not mean being super muscular or a gym-rat!
Over the years it became clearer and clearer (especially once middle age set in) that being in-shape and healthy didn’t mean being ripped with muscle or being able to run a marathon. Those images that were in my head were just as false and unproductive as the image of a stereotypical gamer geek were to the jocks of the world.
The topic of stereotypes is one I will tackle in a future article, but the reality is that we all know they exist whether we agree with them or not…
“Being fit and healthy does not mean being super muscular or ultra-thin!”
So how do you blend your gaming interests with an healthy lifestyle?
The biggest hurdle for people wanting to make change in their life is finding the time, eating healthy and the motivation.
Oft-times people say they want something, but then their actions seem contradictory. One of my biggest revelations from my many years of teaching martial arts, and just observing people, was my realization that people are inherently lazy.
This isn’t a judgement, I promise!
Am I lazy by nature? Totes McGotes! (“I Love You Man”? Anyone? Bueller? Dammit…) I think anyone who participates in physical activity will tell you that if the activity was not mentally stimulating to them in some way, that they would A) not enjoy it and B) probably not do it for very long.
So what’s the solution?
I believe it is finding a hobby/activity that already matches your existing interest. Like I said, we are all lazy by nature. So every obstacle we a remove between us and our supposed goals just makes them that much easier.
One of the major obstacles to starting a new hobby is the question “Will I really enjoy this?”
If you already know you enjoy a facet of an activity that question is addressed before even taking your first foray into that new endeavor. So what exactly am I talking about? Let me give you a few examples:
- You play a lot of console fighting games – Go join a martial arts school. Learning to throw, choke and kick people in the spleen is quite satisfying and it will give you a greater appreciation for the crazy moves you make Yoshimitsu pull off while playing Tekken.
- You pwn newbs playing FPS shooters on your PC – Go paint-balling when the weather permits. BOOM!HEADSHOTing people and then ridiculing them is fun over TeamSpeak or Ventrilo, but it is infinitely more satisfying in person when you see a paintball explode on their mask on the field.
- You play a ton of RPGs – Take up fencing, or go join your local chapter of the SCA . Actually learn to use a sword, or research some medieval zweihander manual and club some poor fool like a baby seal. The workout is great and you can be more descriptive next time you are fighting a horde of goblins with your friends when playing D&D.
The other obstacle the subversive lazy part of your brain will throw up is going to be the excuse that you don’t know how to start, or that you won’t know what you are doing and therefore will make a fool out of yourself.
That is something I plan on tackling in-depth in an ongoing series in the near future, but for now let me assure you that 90% of the time the real world is more accepting of failure and mistakes than the geek world believe it or not. I can’t remember the last time someone ran over and tea-bagged me on the paintball field while insulting my mother (maybe because I blocked it out, but I think you get my point).
Whatever it is you decide on doing, go out and do it and experience some healthy living. You won’t be sorry!
Thoughts, comments or “your mom” jokes anyone?
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Jerd? Define…
So what is a “Jerd“?
I’m glad you asked! A “Jerd” simply put, is the combination of a jock and a nerd. To explain this better I have to tell you a little bit about myself first.
At different points in my life I have been:
- a RPG geek (Random Jerd trivia – My first brush with publicly merging interests came when I was thanked in Steve Long’s “Ultimate Martial Artist” for Hero Games)
- an avid comic book reader (Marvel, DC and independents)
- a clerk in a comic book store
- a fan of trading card games (Who had a first edition Black Lotus? This guy.)
- a PC gamer/user reaching back to the dark ages of the Atari 800
- a console gamer on many platforms (I will prepare to offend Nintendo fans in another post)
- a huge cinephile
- a fitness club owner
- a martial arts instructor
- an IT consultant
I have never felt like I fit in firmly in any one circle of friends.
I had my nerd friends – RPGs, trading card games, console and PC gamers; my martial arts friends – traditional, sport and MMA fighters; and my sports friends – skateboarders, triathletes, wrestlers, etc… and I stood with one leg firmly in each circle. (That’s right ladies, I said three… Think about it).
For the longest time I never let those streams cross (#EgonSpenglerProtip) and went as far as making sure to never speak about my martial arts at work or my massive geekiness with my training partners. Why I was adamant about keeping my life so compartmentalized is a topic I will tackle another day, but I lived my life religiously by the first rule of Fight Club.
After years and years of this it started to become tiring; not to mention I was noticing friends and acquaintances here and there that also lived in multiple circles of influence. Rare as they were, they existed nonetheless. How was I to compartmentalize them?
It was a dilemma I was growing weary of!
So a couple of years ago I was in Tampa on a consulting engagement. All I did while living down there for six months was work and train. I was away from my family, living in a hotel, and to be frank, it sucked. So I spent my time training. Hard. I would always come into the office battered and bruised, often with a blackened eye.
After one particularly bruising evening I rolled into the office looking like a prison-rape victim, and one of my co-workers started grilling me about how I spent my free time; so I let the fact that he lived in a different compartment than my martial arts go and I just told him.
Surprisingly to me, he wasn’t dismissive or condescending at all!
There were no cheesy karate chop jokes or Bruce Lee impersonations, he was genuinely curious about my training, exercise regimen and whatnot and expressed a desire to be motivated enough to pursue something like that in his own life. At the end of the conversation he looked at me and said “You’re a jerd.” He could tell I had no clue what in the hell he was talking about, so he clarified for me.
“You are a jock. And a nerd. You’re a ‘jerd’.”
What neither he, nor I, realized at that moment was how impactful that word would be. It has rolled around in the back of my cranium for a couple of years now coalescing into this idea that is starting to manifest on the keyboard in front of me.
Despite what popular media implies you can be a nerd, a geek and a jock at the same time. It just takes a little bit of motivation for the geekier and a little less self-consciousness for the jockier, that’s all.
Thoughts?
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